I am so excited to share our first guest post written from the perspective of Danielle Haines and Katie DiBenedetto – birth & postpartum doula partners. They can be reached at: http://danielleh11.wordpress.com/.
Mammals eat their placenta as soon as it is born. When did we stop eating it?
Before we go into the medicine of Placenta and you just can't get over consuming your own beautiful organ your body created, let us just express the experience we had.
There is a mama we are working with. She has a history of postpartum depression after giving birth. So we had talked about her using her placenta when this baby is born so that she gets all the benefits from the placenta and reduces the likelihood of depression after birth. She was willing to do anything she could to ensure her bonding and connection with her 3rd baby.
I'd like to point out that this is a much more severe situation and history than perhaps the average mama, or is it? It's a ''taboo" topic in this society to talk about depressed, dark feelings after giving birth.
We had processed the placenta 24 hours after the baby was born. To see all the details on how we processed this placenta click here: http://danielleh11.wordpress.com/2011/06/07/placenta-processing/
The baby is now 2 days old. We walk into the house thinking we are just going to be delivering 4 smoothies. When we walked in the dad said he was really glad that we were there. He said his wife really needed some help. The apartment was dark, and dreary. The mama was laying on the bed staring at the wall. The dad was holding the fully clothed baby. I asked the mama what was going on. She said she was in a lot of pain, and so she couldn’t hold her baby. She was aware that this meant she wasn’t bonding with her baby. She honestly said she was ready to leave that day. Ready to leave the baby and the dad and never return. She felt they were good without her.
We talked about her emotions, and thoughts. She cried and was heard. Then we sat her up, gave her some Traumeel (homeopathic formula for trauma, pain etc…), we doused maxi pads in Witch Hazel and put them in the freezer so she could put them on her stitches once they were cold. We filled up her water bottle. Then we encouraged her to hold the baby. We asked her to get skin to skin with her baby. That means her shirt was to completely come off and the baby was to be naked down to his diaper. We explained to her that her baby’s body releases hormones from the top of his head. It is important for a new mama to smell those hormones. It is important for baby to smell mama, hear her heart beat, feel her warmth and breath. In nature the only reason you would be pregnant, give birth and not be nursing is if they baby had died. We explained to her that since she hadn’t held or nursed the baby since he was born, her body was having a similar hormonal response as it would if her baby had died. Her body was grieving the death of her child even though he was alive in dad’s arms right next to her. Her mind knew he was alive, her body believed he was dead.
After about two minutes of skin to skin she was uncomfortable and wanted someone to take the baby from her. We acknowledged her feelings and told her should could do it. She ended up changing positions and laying on her side with the baby simply laying next to her. This seemed to be easier for her than sitting up in bed holding him in her arms.
THEN we busted out with the placenta medicine. We handed her a raw placenta smoothie, she took the lid off and put it up to her nose to smell. She immediately started smelling her baby as well. She sat up in bed and took him back in her arms. About 20 minutes after that she put the baby to her breast and started successfully nursing. After the baby latched she remarked that she got a chill up her spine. She was laughing and smiling at this point. She started guzzling water. She took some more Traumeel. She hadn’t eaten much and was being nourished by her placenta smoothie. She continued processing her feelings out loud.
The scene when we left was much different than the scene when we arrived. The windows were open. Light was coming in. She was holding and nursing her baby, drinking her smoothie and her water, she had her favorite music on. This had a big impact on us and is a true testament to the power of the placenta, as well as other very simple things – homeopathic formulas, sunlight, hydration, support in breastfeeding, connecting with your baby, connecting with women. It was amazing to see how, even though her husband had been her partner for years, he was lost at how to support her during this time.
As a final thought: It is normal and natural to consume your placenta. To not consume your placenta is to intervene with natures process and invite complications. To read more about the power of placenta medicine, the science behind it, other uses for it, and recipes, check out this website: http://www.moondragon.org/parenting/placentadisposalrituals.html
If you have a story to share about crafting or using placenta medicine, please contact us at placentaliberationfront@gmail.com
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